Erica Jack Yeung's Life

6) Supportive. Are you supportive? What does it mean to be supportive? Do you belittle your man or do you help him to feel good about himself, his job, activities? Your husband will be much more respectful of you if you support him. Even when you don’t agree with him – respectfully let him know you don’t agree – then support him anyway. Otherwise, if he has difficulties – he’ll feel as though you’re adding to his troubles.

5) Build up your man. Ladies, there’s no quicker way to build resentment in your man than to criticize him – especially in front of others. On the flip side – try genuinely complementing your husband in front of other people. Your husband will glow with admiration toward you and you’ll feel his appreciation as love.

4) Keep him happy in the bedroom. Unfortunately, many women underestimate the importance of keeping her man’s needs met. Often this comes from the basic differences in women and men. For men, sexual desire is much like physical hunger and if it’s not fed properly – the relationship will struggle. Women must look to understand the needs of the man from his perspective not hers.

3) Respect. A good wife will try to treat her man with respect. How? Much of learning how to be respectful toward your husband has to do with the way you talk to him. The old phrase “It’s not so much what you say but how you say it” should become a wife’s motto. This doesn’t mean you need to be careful what you say to your husband – just be respectful in the way you say it.

2) Communicate. Ironically, good communication between men and women can be quite frustrating. However, a good wife will seek to discover what’s on her mind and find a way to express herself to her husband. Often, men and women will make a joint decision – while the man thinks she’s in agreement with him – but only to discover later that she thought the decision was a bad idea.

1) Be pleasant. Work to be pleasant toward your husband. Don’t be one of those people who makes everyone around you feel bad just because you’ve had a hard day. Good things will come from being pleasant. It’s a decision – just decide to be pleasant. But if you can’t be pleasant – make a decision not to bring him down with you.

童年時

1993 - met at school -Takapuna Grammar School.

1995 - randomly met on street - Causeway Bay, Jack Jack used to take me out for dinner and shopping with Opel Caliber.

1996 - Jack Jack bought me a pair of chopstick with a love letter, I did not realised there was a letter in there. He guessed that he was rejected.

1997 - Jack Jack tought me maths and drove me around with FTO.

1998 - Jack Jack saw me at University without letting me know and he was too shy to come and say hi to me.  After I found out there was a love letter in the package of chopstick, We already lost contact ...  

2007 - randomly met again on net, Jack Jack took me to Peak for dinner on the first day we met since 1997.

2008 - married.

Jack:   我等左好耐 !

BuBu:  我都係 !